Achieve Success: Positive Thinking is Habit of Unsuccessful Person

I have seen a lot of Unsuccessful peoples who has the habit of positive thinking. They think that being positive is the key of success. And they just go and go further without knowing what are they doing and why they are doing. Maybe, they don’t want to face the bitter truth of their life. 

You may, or may not know that just being positive doesn’t guarantee you to get success in life. You need to learn and follow some other rules and things too as well as being positive for getting success. 

And more over is that, Positivity might be dangerous. It can ruin your entire life. So be careful. 

Before today, you must have been listening that being positive is good; always be positive; always be around positive peoples; try to escape from negative propels, etc.. 

And I am sure, you have learned a lot of methods and techniques about how to be positive. 

Though, there might be some advantage of being positive. But there is some disadvantage too. And in this article, we’ll discuss about that. How it is dangerous and what you should do. What is proper and practical way to achieve success? 

Also, there is another interesting thing. Negativity can be beneficial. Yes that’s right! 

So you must be wondering that I am trying to say that we should be negative not positive.

No not really! 

You will know that in couple of minutes what I am trying to teach you; and should you be positive or negative? 

And also, you will know some other things that you might be thinking. 

So let’s get started step by step, and please make sure you read everything with patiently, and try to understand my point, if you really want to learn something very useful and want to achieve success in life. 

Where are we right now?

I would like to start my point with current situation. In our world where we are living now, negativity is everywhere. Negativity is in newspaper, TV shows, in our home, in our personal life and everywhere.

If someone say to you that for being positive and achieving success, you need to escape from negativity; you need to escape from negative peoples; you need to spend time with positive peoples. 

So tell me how it’s possible to avoid negativity. The fact is that, it’s almost impossible. Maybe you can escape from negativity in newspaper or other stuff like that. But how you can escape if there is some negative person living in your house. It might be your parents, brother, sister, uncle or wife or anyone. You can’t get rid of your beloved relations. They are always giving you negative energy. 

So remember that thing, you can’t get rid of negativity from your life. You can’t avoid it completely. And that is fact.

Balance: 

So then, what’ next? What’s the solution? What you need to do?

The answer is, you need to do balance. Bring positivity in your life. You can’t get rid of nativity, but you can bring more positives in your life. And how can you do that?

You can do that by spending some times with positive people, by reading positive affirmations, by reading motivational articles, by listening motivational lectures. 

So by doing this, some positivity comes in your life.  And balance will create in your world of negativity and positivity. 

What does positivity do?

Positivity Increase positive energy. And when positive energy increase, you do more positive actions. A new hope creates. You become optimistic. You feel better. You feel happiness in your life.

But there is another thing. Positivity happened for short period of time. While listening some motivational lecture or reading some motivational book, you are feeling cheerful. You start to consider yourself a successful person like a hero. But after passing several hours, you comes at in your previous condition. And that is another fact. 

What does negativity do?

Negativity increase the negative energy. And when negative energy increase, you do more negative actions. You depressed and hopeless. 

So it is still good to gain some positivity instead of negativity. Because, to have just negativity is very bad. 

Why being positive is dangerous?

Let me explain this with couple of examples;

You go somewhere. There is a river and you want to swim on that river. You don’t know how to swim, but you are very positive that you can swim. Many positive people are around you who are telling you, “come on, you can do that; you can swim; think positive and never bad thing is going to happen” so there is a lot of positive energy in your mind. 

But when you dive in the river, a bad thing happens with you and you fall in river. Some person might save you later. 

Point is that what happened with those positivity. Why you failed. It was very dangerous and you could die. 

It happened because you didn’t know how to swim. First, you needed to learn that. 

Another example;

You want to reach some place, and you start to go. There is a long straight track and you have to go by foot. But you are going in opposite direction. Your desired place is on north side, but you are going toward south side. 

And you are so positive that you will reach there. Many peoples says to you that you never be able to reach there. But your positive energy is so high and you ignore those negative people and says “I should be positive, I can reach there. I should ignore those negativity.” And then, you continue your travel. 

Now tell me, how you can get success in that way when you are not going to right direction. 

You are doing struggling and hardworking for building your career or achieving your goal. And you are very positive. You spend your time with positive peoples and you never listen to negative peoples. You believe that one day you will be able to achieve your goal. You will be succeed. 

But you are not doing work in right way or right direction. So after 20 years, you think that you didn’t get anything. You have wasted your time. Now you are not here and not there. Your entire life has ruined because of positivity. 

Now you think, “I should have listen negative peoples. Negative people said that I will never get success here. They were true. “

Here is the thing, when negativity might be beneficial. 

How negativity is beneficial?

When Negative person says something negative; he says because of some reason. There might be some past bad experience. He might be true. He knows what will happen. 

And by listening him, you can save your money and important time of your life. You can escape from a big loss. 

What should you do? Should you be positive or negative?

The proper way is that, Take negativity and positive as an information. When some person says something positive; you should know, that is a piece of information. And when a person says something negative, that is also a piece of information. 

You need to listen both type of peoples. You need to know the reality. You should not be positive or negative. 

How to use information and know the reality?

When some person says something positive,” do it, you can do it” your job is to ask him “why should I do that?”

If someone says something negative, “don’t do that” then, your job is to know why he is saying that; what the reason is. Ask him why should you not to do that; what will happen. Also you should find out the past experience of that person; know why he failed in specific field. 

When you will take negative and positive things just as an information, you will not get depress when some person will say something negative to you; and you will not feel over happiness when some person will say something positive to you.

You will be normal in both cases. Nothing will leave an effect on your mind. Because, you know that both things are just a piece of information and you know how to use them. 

So you need to find out the realty. And according to the realty, you have to take action in right direction. 

What is your motive?

Are you still sticking with positivity? Let me ask you a question.

What is your motive? Is your motive to being positive or is your motive to get success in life. 

Of course, your motive is getting success in life. So that means, it doesn’t matter if success comes with positivity or negativity. You just need success. 

How to achieve success?

Remember, you will never be able to get success with these three things, negativity, positivity and hardworking. 

For getting success, you need to understand strategies of success. And according to strategies, you need to act. 

Many peoples don’t know what are they doing? Why are they doing? Where are they going?

They are just doing hard work. Those people never can get success.

If you are 100% sure that you are doing right thing and you are going in right direction, then, neither negativity can influence you not positivity. 

Conclusion:

Purpose of this article is to give you a proper and practical way to achieve success; Purpose of this article is to tell you about your mistake when it comes to positive thinking. You need to know that being positive can be dangerous. 

Let me summarize all above information for you in step by step. 

If there is too much negativity around you, then first thing is that you need to get some positivity and do balance them. After that, if you are going to achieve your goal, listen both of persons.  Listen the person who is positive; and listen the person who is negative and forbidding you do something. 

Your motive should be just take out the information from both person.  Take both points as an information and try to find out the reality. Maybe, positive person is true; or maybe negative person is true. 

Now it’s time to find out the strategies of success. Then, take right action in right direction. 

I hope, that article will be informative for you. And now you have a clear concept of positivity and negativity. So now it’ll be much for you to achieve your goal. 

Also, I recommend you to read this article that is about how successful people think. 

If you have any question or suggestion, please feel free to ask me in comments section down below. I would love to hear from. Thanks!