So, you are doing hard work, but you are still not getting
success. You are still fail to achieve your goal. You wonder why you do not
achieve success in spite of working so hard; why you fail in every field.
Everybody want to be success. But there are only few peoples
who succeed to get success. Why it happens?
In this article, we will look all those reasons that stop you
to get success.
I have created two section. First one solve your problem, in
case if you are unable to take right decision and start. Second one solve your
problem, in case if you are doing hard work, but you are still not getting
success in any field.
Let’s get started and know the 12 simple but biggest reasons
that you might have, and you are failure because of those reasons.
Reasons why you are not successful (in case, when you didn’t start your work)
You want to do something for getting success, but you are
unable to start. You are doing nothing right now. In this section, you will
learn about those reasons that are stopping you to start your work. And also, how
you can get rid of those reasons and problems, and start your first step. Let’s
see one by one.
(1)Fear of failure:
Number 1 reason that stop you to get started is fear of
failure. You think, if you succeed, that would be great; everybody respect you;
my life would be better; but what if you fail. You think, if you fail, all
people around you will make fun of you.
Remember one thing, “haters going to hate you in any
condition. They are not going to be happy with you.”
So don’t think like that if you succeed, those people are not
going to make fun of you. They will do. Even if you want to achieve big Mount
Everest, and you succeed and you wave your flag on Mount Everest. People might
say
“hey man, how stupid you are; you did a hard work just for
reaching there; what did you find there; there’s nothing in there; you should
do something genius work; you can do something else.”
So if your thinking is like that, stop thinking like that. Don’t
care what people are saying about you. And start doing something that you want
to do without any fear of failure.
(2)Fear of taking risk:
You have fear of taking risk. You are afraid to go new places
and meet with new peoples. And most importantly thing is you don’t want to
spend a small amount of money.
This is one of the biggest reason that stop you to taking
your first step towards your goal.
You are not going to achieve goal without taking risk. Here
is an example,
Many peoples want start their career as a blogger, and to start
blogging website require a small amount of money, but people are afraid to pay
that. They think if their blogging website doesn’t be successful, what will
happen? Their money will be lost.
You know how stupid this thought is!
It cost $2.95/month only. And this the cheapest thing ever in
the world. A fast junk food or cup of tea has more cost than this. If you don’t
eat junk food for only one day, you can pay that fees for your whole month.
You are wasting your money a lot of unnecessary things, but
when it comes to investment, you think a lot. You become afraid.
But a successful person never do that. He always prefer to
investment rather than other unnecessary things.
So paying blogging fees is like an investment; it’s not
spending. It defiantly pay you back. But if it fail what worst thing might happen?
Think about it.
It just waste of $36/year. And that’s not that worst.
Also, if you fail in first year; actually it’s not a waste; there
is something new learning material in there; you will learn something. And that
learning will be very helpful for you future decision.
So look at this, here is beautiful quote for you.
“Failure doesn’t exist, either you succeed or you learn
something.”
(3) To impose limit to yourself:
People have a lot of excuses when it comes to start
something. And I am sure you do that too.
They say, they don’t have enough money; they don’t have
enough time; they don’t know how to start; they don’t have enough knowledge of
particular field a lot more.
They are always trying to find some excuse to not to do
something. They think, they will start when some opportunity will come.
I don’t admit all those silly excuse. If you really want to
do something, you can always do it. Don’t wait for opportunity, create your own
opportunity.
You can read more about that in this article, how successful people think.
(4)Dreaming and overthinking:
Many peoples see just dreams for doing something. They think
a lot. They think, right decision comes after a lot of thinking. So they think
a lot. And more they think, the more difficulty appears to take their decision.
What is a good decision? In my opinion, a good decision is
what you decide. There is no ‘right decision and wrong decision’ term exist.
How much should you take time for deciding something?
Decision become faster if you mind is clear. For example, if
you don’t take drugs, and you are 100% sure about it, so if someone ask you to
take drug, you will daintily say “NO”
So think about, how much did you take time to say “No”?
You didn’t take any time; you say “no” instantly; you didn’t
say “I will think for 2 days, and then I will decide that should I take drug or
not”
So that means, you will take time only in that case if you
are confused and unclear about something. But if you are 100% sure; if you have
clarity, you will take decision instantly without overthinking.
If you are thinking about how clarity comes, you can check
this article here.Tired of trying to be positive
“Lion don’t dream for hunting, they just hunt.”
So if you are dreaming, overthinking and taking so much for
right decision, stop doing that; take decision instantly and go ahead your
first step.
(5) Speed of action:
Your speed of action should be much faster. If you learn
something, and you want to apply those things, but you are like “I would apply
these useful things in some other day”
That is the biggest reason of failure. Tomorrow will never
come because every tomorrow has another tomorrow. If you do that, you never be
able to start your work. If you want to start something, do it right now.
For example, you are reading my article, just think like “I
need to catch 2 point (as an example) from this article, and instantly apply in
my life.”
So look in this article 2 actionable point; point that is
much easier for you to apply immediately.
For example, if I were you, I might pick these 2 point and
apply instantly “fear of failure, and speed of action”
Now I don’t have fear of failure. And I have applied actionable
points instantly.
Reasons why you are not achieving success (in case, when you are doing hard work)
So you are trying in every field, and you are doing really
hard. You are very hard worker. But you are still very far away from your
success. You are not achieving your goal. In that case, you might be depress.
But don’t worry anymore, I am here to tell you about those
reasons that is stone in your way. So without saying thing, let’s get into it.
(1)You are following trend not passion:
The one of the biggest reason of failure is that you are following
trend. You are following the thing that other people are doing. And people are
doing what all world is doing.
If someone see something profitable and trendy, everybody
start to do that. They never think whether they can achieve their goal or not;
they never think whether they can give a valuable things to customer or not;
they never think whether they have interest on this field or not. They just
want to follow to trend. They just do what other peoples do.
Remember that, always follow to your passion instead of
trend. Think about in which field, you can give a good value to customer.
Don’t think like that there is more money in some specific trendy
field. Never think about money. If you are doing something just for making
money, you are at the stage of failure.
Because, when you start to care about your earning, you lost
your ability to give some good material or product to customer. You stop to
care about your audience and that is super important.
If you will give value to your customers, success and money
automatically will come to you.
And you can give value to you audience only in that case, if
are doing the work that you love to do; and you have passion about that. Because,
when you love something, you are always willing to search more and getting more
knowledge about that. And that thing
improves you in your field.
But if you will do trendy work, that will make you tired only.
And you can stop any time when you feel more difficult time in it; or when you
feel, you are not earning good money. So
you won’t be able to get success.
So you have to love with your work, not money. You will
defiantly succeed one day.
(2)You are doing multiple work instead of focus one:
If you are doing multiple work or task, you are not going to
get success. Because, when you do multiple task, you can’t focus on one thing.
And don’t think like that, if you do multiple work, you might
succeed in one thing. For example, some people start doing many work like 10
work at a time, and they think if they didn’t get success in one thing, they
will succeed another thing; maybe they will succeed in 2/10 takes. But in fact,
they will not be able get success in anything. Also, by doing multiple work,
they will have a lot of unnecessary burden.
Right way is that, focus on one thing, when you get success,
then you can start another one and multiply you income.
For example, if you want to promote your website. And you
think you can promote via many social platforms like Facebook, twitter, YouTube
and others.
My recommendation is that focus on only one platform like Facebook;
and do master the strategies of Facebook. When you will be able to get enough traffic
to your website from Facebook, then you can start twitter. This will give
relief to your brain, you will be able to apply strategies in right and better way.
You can easily learn about Facebook marketing strategies.
(3)You are confused about your success:
If you
become confused about your success sometimes, that is also a big rock in your success
way; and you can’t give enough focus and energy to your work. Because when you are
going to do some more work, this thought comes in your mind “am I doing unnecessary
work? Am I able to succeed or not.” And this thought bring down your energy and
power of your brain. You feel less confident.
You need to
get rid of anxiousness.
There are
two ways to overcome to that problem.
First one
is, make a good strategies, and do everything to clear your mind. You need to
have 100% surety and clarity “I know full path of success, so I will defiantly
get success.” When you have a clear idea and path about your goal, there will
be no doubt in your mind about success.
Second way
is that, do work just for happiness. Follow your passion and do work that give
you happiness.
Don’t think
like “when I will be happy when I get success”
Think “I am
doing work for being happiness."
“If you are playing a game just for be winner, your chances
of lose will be high. But if you are playing a game just for enjoyment, nobody
can beat you.”
The more you will think about success, the more fear of
failure you will get, so stop doing that.
Just follow your passion; set your goal and strategies; stick
to it and start to enjoy your work without worrying about your success.
(4)Making promises every year:
You are making new promises every year. Every year, you have
new resolutions. You promise that you will do hard work in this year. In that
case, you are not going to be successful ever. Stop doing that. And set your
goal for long term and stick to it. Don’t change your decision every year. Find
your right decision right now.
(5)Quit when problem occurs:
Another biggest reason of failure is that, you quit your work
when you have some difficult problem in your way. You think, that is not right
work for you and you should do something else. You don’t try find the solution
of that problem and just start to find some other work.
You should take problem as an adventure. And instead of quit,
you should find the solution.
When you will take this problem as a challenge, this would be
an interesting thing for you. And you will really enjoy to solve that.
I say, without problem life is boring. Life is lifeless. I
love adventures in life. And problems is adventure for me.
People never get success and it doesn’t happen because they
fail, it happens because they never start again; they never solve their
problem.
So never quit and keep going. There is so much in there.
(6)Doing hard work instead of smart work:
Another
reason is that, you are doing hard work instead of smart work. Smart work is
that do where it matters. Don’t do work everywhere without thinking.
I have written a very good article with interesting example.
I recommend you check this out too by clicking here. Be lazy if you want success.
(7) You think successful person is special person
Your thinking is that, highly successful peoples are some
kind of special persons. But in fact, that is wrong. They are also like you.
They are ordinary peoples. They also had failed many times. But their success
key is that, they never quitted. They were consistent.
So it’s time to change your thinking. Go ahead, take your
first step and keep going without stopping.
Conclusion:
In this article, you learnt why you are unable to get success
in spite of hard work.
I hope this article also will be very helpful for you. If you
want to say something, please write it down in comments section. I would love
to hear from you. Thanks!
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